Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Women.

There are many different types of women, which is not a bad thing of course since everyone is born to be different. Some women are incredible role models, for example Emma Watson. She is recognised as being incredibly classy, beautiful and clever, which is obvious as she's now studying at Oxford University. She doesn't represent any sort of fakery, such as fake tan, extensions or false eyelashes. I admire her because she embraces her natural beauty, and she doesn't feel the need to "dumb herself down" in order to make the opposite sex like her. She has a talent (acting) and she's good at what she does. She achieved her dreams at the age of 11 because she worked hard in order to do so. She is respected and likeable, and most women I know want to be her. Surely this is how women would like to be portrayed?

Sadly, it doesn't seem so. Take a night out for example. Most women dress to impress, but for all of the wrong reasons. They only want one thing, which is to "pull" someone, usually a guy which is also only interested in one thing. In order to do this, fakery seems like the best option. To some extent, fakery can be beneficial, but the women which annoy me are the ones which take fakery to the extreme. One example is hair extensions. If done properly and they look realistic, I don't have a problem. When they look tacky and obvious, it's best to just leave them out. Some women seem to think it's a good idea to plaster themselves in fake tan, and think it's attractive to have patchy skin. Why?! Surely it's better to look natural and to have a tan which looks like you've just come back from your holiday, instead of looking like you've been "tangoed". To show off their patchy skin, their shortest dress makes it's way out of the wardrobe, so short in fact that they might as well just be wearing underwear. Yet again, why?! I've asked many guys their opinions on this, and they all seem to say the same thing. If women wear more clothes, the guys have to use their imagination. They tell me that classy women are much more attractive, and are less likely to have slept around as they don't portray the image of being "easy and available". Guys like a challenge, so try not to make things to easy for them.

So where do I fit in? I never go out in order to try and "pull" someone. Of course I want to look nice to some extent, but with some form of classiness. I tend to avoid the hair extensions, the fake tan and incredibly short clothing, because none of those things represent me. I'm not naturally tanned, I don't need or want to use extensions, and I don't want to have the majority of my body out because it gives off the wrong impression, and I would be incredibly paranoid all night. So why give the impression of someone what I'm not? The majority of my female friends seem to think in the same way as me, they think natural is better and classier. This doesn't stop us from getting death stares by the fake girls on nights out, and to be honest I'm not sure I'd like to know what they think. It just goes to show that image does count for something, and if I'm going to meet someone who's going to be in my life, I'd like to give them the right impression.

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